Butt plugs are one of the most beginner-friendly ways into anal play: you pop one in, it stays put, and it leaves the rest of you free. The golden rules are simple — start small, use plenty of lube, and only ever use a plug with a flared base.

Here’s where we’d start you off, from a tiny first plug to something with a bit more presence.

What size should a beginner start with?

Small — genuinely. Look for an insertable width under about an inch and a tapered tip. A plug should feel snug, never forced. If it’s a struggle, size down; comfort now means you’ll actually enjoy going bigger later.

How do I use a butt plug safely?

Three things: a flared base (so it can’t go anywhere), lots of lube (the area doesn’t self-lubricate), and patience (relax, go slow, breathe). Water-based lube is the easy all-rounder; a thicker anal lube lasts longer.